Does your introversion and fear of going up to women hold you back?
We get men into relationships by fixing their fear of social connection.
Maybe you:
If any of this feels familiar, you’re not alone.
And more importantly, you’re in the right place.
You don’t need more theory.
You need real-world practice, guidance, and support.
That’s exactly what my 12-week coaching program is designed to give you.
Build confidence with live reps and role play, while using a new model to overcome anxiety.
You’ll practice conversations, learn exactly what to say, and discover how to project confidence instead of fear.
Once you’re ready, we go out together to malls, cafes, and downtown spots in San Jose, so you can approach women with my guidance by your side.
You’ll stop overthinking and start building real charisma.
A strong dating profile matters.
I’ll set up a professional photoshoot and help you rewrite your profile so you stand out on dating apps, and finally get quality matches.
Not sure what to text back, or how to keep the conversation going?
I’ll review your messages and help you develop the right communication style, both online and in person, so you don’t lose momentum.
We assess your dating goals & challenges.
Get tailored techniques for lasting attraction.
Build unshakable confidence in love and life.
Every day you spend hesitating, overthinking, or avoiding women is a day you can never get back.
Life is short, and the truth is: whether you want to enjoy more casual connections or build a lasting relationship and family, you don’t have unlimited time.
Yes, it’s great to be successful in your career.
Yes, you might be crushing it at work.
But if you come home to an empty apartment night after night, or you have no one to share your wins (and struggles) with, what’s the point?
If you keep doing what you’ve always done, you’ll keep getting the same results.
The good news?
You can change this starting today.
With the right coaching, guidance, and support, you’ll finally learn how to approach women, stop feeling anxious, and create the kind of dating life you actually want.
Don’t waste another day.
Your future self will thank you.
I’m Julia Malakiman, and I’m here to help you become the confident, charismatic man you know you can be.
As a Silicon Valley dating coach with years of experience working with high-achieving, introverted men, I get the unique challenges you’re facing.
You’re someone who excels in many areas of life but struggles with dating, whether due to social anxiety, overthinking, or not knowing what to say.
You’re not broken, you just haven’t been taught the right skills.
I blend individualized feedback, live in-field coaching, and proven confidence-building strategies to help you make genuine connections, not just swipe right.
Your coaching journey is customized to your needs, so you gain real-world dating skills that stick.
Over the years, I’ve guided countless clients through the same transformations you’re seeking, helping them go from anxious or invisible to bold, confident, and surprisingly magnetic.
For Brayden, Tom, Alec, Linh, Sarosh, etc. that used to be their everyday reality, until they decided to change it.
Today, they no longer hesitate.
They’ve built the confidence to approach women naturally, start conversations with ease, and go on more quality dates than they ever imagined.
Listen to what they have to say:
This isn’t magic, it’s the result of proven coaching and real-world practice.
And the same transformation is possible for you.
Looking for a dating coach in San Jose or the Bay Area?
While my coaching sessions take place in San Jose, I work with men from across Silicon Valley and the entire Bay Area who are ready to transform their dating lives.
Whether you live in San Jose or commute from another Bay Area city, you’ll get the same immersive, step-by-step approach that helps introverted men build confidence, overcome social anxiety, and finally enjoy success with women.
A free 30-minute call to discuss your dating challenges and map out a clear strategy for success. No pressure, no obligation, just expert guidance to help you start your journey.
My coaching is for men who are smart, driven, and successful in many areas of life, but feel stuck, awkward, or unsure when it comes to dating and connecting with women. I work especially with introverted, analytical men (like engineers, tech professionals, and entrepreneurs) who want real, lasting confidence, not pickup lines, games, or fake personas. If you’re serious about improving your dating life, ready to take action, and want to build real attraction based on who you actually are, my coaching is built for you.
A dating coach helps you improve your confidence, communication, and dating skills. They guide you through real-life situations like approaching women, going on dates, and using dating apps, so you feel more comfortable and successful.
Choose a dating coach who specializes in your situation, has real testimonials, and offers clear steps for improvement. Look for someone local if you want in-person practice, and make sure their approach feels supportive and practical.
We focus on building real confidence through mindset shifts, practical skill-building, and exposure practice.
You’ll get personalized coaching, live role-plays, feedback, and step-by-step strategies during in-field practice that you can apply immediately, both in conversation and in dating. This isn’t about memorizing scripts. It’s about becoming the man women naturally want to connect with through experience, not theory.
You can expect to feel more confident, natural, and in control when it comes to dating and social situations.
Most men I coach see big shifts in their mindset, their ability to approach and connect with women, and their overall dating results, often faster than they thought possible.
You’ll stop overthinking, start leading conversations with ease, and naturally attract women without feeling like you have to “perform” or chase. The biggest result? You’ll become the man who knows his value, and women will feel it too.
No one can guarantee results, and I believe in being honest about that.
Your success depends on your willingness to show up, take action, and apply what you learn. What I can guarantee is that you’ll get the guidance, tools, and real-world strategies you need to start having better relationships with women. If you commit to the process, the growth you experience can be life-changing.
Not necessarily. I offer both in-person and virtual coaching options depending on your location and goals.
In-person coaching is ideal if you want live feedback during real-world interactions, like practicing conversations, flirting, and social skills in public settings.
Virtual coaching is great if you prefer the flexibility of online sessions and want to work on mindset, communication skills, and dating strategy from anywhere. We’ll decide together what approach best fits your needs and comfort level.
